Mary T. Perley diaries, 1860-1904
Collection Scope and Content
In entries spanning the Civil War, the Centennial and the turn of the century, Mary Perley manages to fit decades of experience in two thin diaries. Rarely giving more than a few lines to a day, the journals cover the years between 1860 and 1904, inclusively. The diaries act largely as a record of her travels, with many names mentioned, but few details. On a trip up river from Jacksonville, Florida, her husband Henry dies after a short, non-specified illness. Afterward she writes, “Alone today and forever on Earth.”
However, losing her husband does not stop her from continuing her travels. Never remarrying, Mary travels with friends and family, attending concerts and theater performances, taking French and music lessons, and marking the occasional milestone. A common travel companion was William Pitt Fessenden, U.S. senator from Maine and Secretary of the Treasury under Abraham Lincoln. In 1861, she writes that she and her sisters, to whom she was very close and mentions often, are making shirts for Maine troops, that her brother is looking to enlist.
Her traveling dwindles during the war years, but pick up again quickly in 1865. Notably, she attends the 1876 Centennial in Philadelphia, and in 1885 spends four months – January to April – traveling in Bermuda, recording a wealth of flora and fauna. She also loses her sister Harriet in July, 1876, writing, “Harriet died today – oh! What a void it leaves in my life.” In 1888, she attends the first International Council of Women in Washington, D.C. and listens to speeches from Frederick Douglass, Lucy Stone and Elizabeth Cady Stanton.
With William Pitt Fessenden, she travels to New York, Washington, D.C. and to the “President’s country house” in the later half of her diaries. She also visits Governor John Andrew in Boston. In the last year of her entries, Mary records the death of her sister Adeline and the illness suffered by sister Almira.
Mary T. Perley (nee Mary Titcomb Fitch) was born January 7, 1831, in Portland Maine. Daughter of Judge Luther Fitch and Almira Titcomb, she married Henry Enoch Perley around 1851. They had one son, George Allen Perley who was born in 1856 and died on March 14th, 1858 from unknown causes. Mary traveled extensively throughout her life, first with her husband, and then – after his death in 1860 – with friends and her sisters. Mary had three brothers and four sisters. She was 29 when she began the journals, and 73 at the time of the last entry. She died on June 6, 1905, and is buried in Naples, Maine, as Mary T. Fitch.